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Maggie JK's avatar

When I had to open probate in Massachusetts one of the questions on the application asked if I was disabled and if so to attach my conservatorship paperwork. It was confusing. I had to ask the clerk because I collect SSDI but there’s no conservatorship. She asked me if I was “really disabled”. I remember telling her that I can’t work full time but I’m not “Britney Spears disabled” so she told me to check no.

I remember walking away thinking Britney works her butt off so what did I even mean. Ugh.

I had to stop following her on social media because every time she posts herself dancing in her home there are people in the comments saying “Doesn’t she have anyone who loves her? She needs help!” then there are people who reply “They tried, but the ‘Free Britney’ public tore them apart.” It makes me sad. If feels like misogyny when people act like she should be drugged and controlled because she dances in a provocative manner on Instagram.

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Chris Richards's avatar

The simple fact is that a conservatorship is a legal tool that can be weaponized against anyone a lawyer can convince a judge is mentally ill, for the purposes of exploitation. The belief that the mentally ill *should* be treated that way is why “people who are not really disabled” can also be treated that way in the name of ableism.

Thank you!

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